17. Why You Are Afraid to Make the Wrong Decision and How to Change It

Many of my clients struggle with the intense fear of making the wrong decision. Why do so many of us struggle with this fear, and why is it so intense? Listen in as I walk you through all of this, including how your childhood is linked to this fear and why women tend to struggle with this intense fear more often than men do.

Based on values instilled in us in childhood, we sometimes find ourselves feeling stuck between what is right and what is wrong, which is why we fear making the wrong decision. Stepping up into your own autonomy means that you get to decide on your own values, which means that you can provide your own validation. Doing so can relieve so much suffering in your mind.

 

Show Highlights

  • why so many people struggle with the fear of making the wrong decision

  • what makes this fear so intense

  • the link between this fear and childhood

  • the connection between wanting to make the right decision and survival mechanisms

  • why women tend to struggle with this more often than men do

  • why we feel stuck between deciding what is right and wrong

  • where self-sabotage comes from

 

Resources

Sheila’s Website
Email me: sheila@sheilatully.com

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