95. Help With Aging Parents

Caring for aging loved ones can be incredibly challenging. That's why I've invited Mary Remmes here today. She is a life coach specializing in helping adults navigate the complexities of caring for aging family members. Her extensive background in nursing home administration makes her a trusted expert on this topic. Caring for aging parents is a demanding experience that many of us will face. Our family has first-hand experience, and I've seen countless clients grapple with similar challenges. Mary compassionately reminds us that one in five adults is involved in elder care. You're not alone. Caregiving can be emotionally taxing and lead to self-doubt. In this episode, Mary shares insights and resources that have helped me and should help you.

Show Highlights

  • pay attention to interactions between staff and patients and other staff at facilities

  • our highest priority for aging parents is safety, theirs is independence and autonomy

  • siblings may have different perceptions of relationships with parents

  • let go of notions of fairness and equal distribution of caregiving responsibilities

  • loneliness is a significant issue for the elderly that can't always be resolved from outside

  • it’s crucial to have conversations about end-of-life wishes and care preferences 

  • focus on loving aging parents in the moment to navigate complex caregiving challenges

Resources

Sheila’s Website

Sheila’s Instagram Page

Email me: sheila@sheilatully.com

Mary Remmes Website

Being Mortal by Atul Gawande

When Your Aging Parent Needs Help by Leslie Kernisan, MD

Aging Life Care Association

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